Whoever you are, wherever you are, I think we’re a lot alike. Human beings in the pursuit of happiness, discovery and fulfillment. Starting off every day is as wondrous as it is unpredictable. But there’s a duality to all, including uncertainty. Situations of any size can strike with life-altering impact. Impact that takes a jab at our zeal, dimming the eyes of innocence we once carried. And, suddenly, the world doesn’t seem so magical.
From the collective traumas of 2020 to the battles of our inner world, it’s understandable to feel wretched. Though our circumstances vary, know it’s okay to mourn, to grieve, to simply feel all emotions that follow. Time does not heal our pain, but its passage helps. As we work to heal, it can feel intolerable getting back on track of our pursuits. Now looking toward the sky we once marveled at, the stars stand still. In times like this, it’s easy to lose sight of the magic that keeps us going.
But what exactly is magic?
We often associate magic with the supernatural or tricks and illusions. However, I think it’s far beyond that. Magic is the sparks in life that enhance our human experience. It’s what keeps us in admiration and keeps us going. And, since life in itself is magical, it comes in endless sources. It can range from your career, a dear friend, or simply a show you admire.
The most enduring lesson I learned at VASJ is the magic of community. There’s an unmatched power of collective effort inside the school, which is why the Vikings remain victorious in all we do. But community isn’t just about working together to achieve a shared goal. Rather, it bestows upon us others to enjoy life with and lean on when times get tough. No matter if it’s simply the aid of family or friends, there’s a beauty to support. So, though you take on hardships, you’re never alone in spirit.
But even with magic, sources we find solace in can suddenly fade. The end of a relationship you assumed was endless or the loss of a loved one who helped you through adversities. Lacking established magic in difficult times can make life seem dull. But through this may we remember the power of perspective and redefine our magic.
Life is a series of changes that graciously rid us of being defined by a single experience. Thankfully it’s the same with magic. Sources of magic can be long-lasting. And, though we may desire all of our sources to be like this, others come and go. Allow the remnants of your past magic to leave a sweet taste in your mouth. There’s magic all around — we just have to be open to it.
And when you redefine your magic, you make the stars dance again.
Melanie Mitchell ’18 is a writer and director whose first film, "A Seat at the Table," premiered in 2019. That same year, she worked as a production assistant on the set of the AMC hit show, "The Walking Dead."